The epic rentrée 2023

Evening of a very very very long day. Why does the start of the school year have to be so maniac? Is it like this everywhere or just here? I consider myself a seasoned organiser and my signature strengths shine of anticipating everything as much as I can before the summer break. Yet, the past week has been completely ridicilous and parent undermining race of preparations, reviewing of material lists, ordering books, trips to the bookshop of missing items and an embarassing number of A*orders. Add to this the arcaec system some organisations still have in place to register kids to after-school activities, such as the community swimming pool - where I queued along with other brave fellow parents in about 40 degrees celsius for 2 sweaty hours to get my youngest for her class. EVERYthing in their process was manual: one (1) person was managing the registrations, payment cash only, update of attendance list manually by another 1 person (her only task), manual filling of papers. I forgot the paper ticket we had to take (manually) to keep order of arrivals. Blind me. No wonder I slept in this morning, the First day of school! Oh we made it to the school well on time (vanity mom would have just wanted to make the first impressions with her hair washed). It was a huge day for my youngest, who changed school and language section. She was so excited and brave. The teacher seemed nice and the new girl friends as well. 5 year olds are adorable. I hope she will find her place and happimess there. I felt a pinch in my heart thinking she will likely pass her baccalaureat with many of these little angels. My baby is out in the big world now! Her siblings were as excited to meet their friends and happy faces hopped into the car in the afternoon. The heatwave continues with +32 celsius and the best place to spend the afternoon after an intense morning was of course the pool..Ode to that! Bravo babies, bravo mama (a bit papa) for having succeeded another 1st Big day!

Summer 2023 - Bretagne

Our stay in Bretagne was a success. The holiday home was fully equipped with a big garden and games for the kids, a 5 min. walk from the beautiful long sandy beach, lined by a pedestrian and biking trail, water sports centre and the village. As we discovered, the village had quite an active cultural program and a hightlight of the week was an open air cinema with my big girls at the beach (the movie was called "The Cow" and we followed the walking journey of an algerian man and his cow Jacqueline from Marseille to Paris - no where else than in Bretagne 🤣). It was nice to walk home in the dark only led by the stars and moonlight (and a few mosquitos!). Another taste of Bretagne was the long-waited village party "Fest Noz" where we witnessed the locals' love for line dancing, apple cidre and galettes! (unfortunately my youngest really hated the whole concept and so we had to leave early and very civilised). What else shall I share from our two weeks in Bretagne? We tempted again some watersports and spent an afternoon practicing catamaran. This is more of the dream of my husband, but as we are all good sports we rented two boats with an instructor. The wheather was lovely, the guide very good and we were quite proud of ourselves as he assured us we could next time go out by ourselves. I would like to offer more of the seaside activities to my kids, perhaps a half-day camp next summer if they are still into it? My heart stayed in the pretty medieval villages Bretagne has plenty of: Rochefort-sur-Terre, Roche-Bernard, Pont -Aven, as well as bigger cities of Vannes and Lorient. Strolling in the cobble-stoned streets, visiting art galleries or artisanal workshops, the castles most of them had..a very nice outing for a day. I also recalled our mishabs of last summer and was sure to reserve the table ahead in the tiniest villages, where it gets very busy at lunch breaks. 6 weeks abroad are almost behind. We wanted to offer our kids a summer full of adventure and open their eyes to discover different parts of the world. I asked my kids what they recall from this summers adventures and the answers were quite unanimous: beaches and first hotel in the Dominican republic (it was fab), spending time with their aunty in Mexico and snorkelling in the many cenotes. From Bretagne - the 350m/ 40 height triolienne we did in the Nautical center of Eric Tabary (truly terryifying), galettes (of course) and the ultimates: learning fishing for my son and ... shopping in Lorient's Zara for my girls (sniif). Thank you courageous little travellers for your resilience, it was not always easy and I think we are all already looking forward to tucking into our own dear beds. Part of the beauty of travelling is to return home..

Summer 2023 - A day in Bretagne

There isn't a more perfect day for me than morning yoga at the terrace with my gymnast girl, a good brisk family walk along the littoral enjoying the seaside scenery, choosing the ideal beach house for us (with quite different architectural tastes) and discovering an oyster/moule seller by a tiny seaside harbour. At the house, we studied carefully with my eldest the Marmiton receipy and prepared a delicious lunch "Moules à la Marinieres" with some green salad, baguette and camembert for dessert. My husband appeared to have an ecstatic experience while enjoying his oysters with some white wine. "J'aime beaucoup!"declared my youngest. I could not agree more. Namaste.

Summer 2023 - Vallée de la Loire

It feels heart warming to be back in Europe. The memories were still very vivid from our amazing summer 2020 and 2022 tours along the Atlantic Coast and hence the whole family had a mutual wish to spend the last leg of our summer vacations in France. Following two days of maniac washing and re-packing we headed our way to beloved France. We had chosen quite randomly two houses in small coastal villages in Bretagne. To break the 750 km route we decided to stop in Vallée de la Loire and visit a few castles. The lesser known Ferbre Saint Aubin, the famous Chambord and - from recommendation of an elderly local lady while buying our morning croissants at the village boulangerie - the Cheverney castle. It is difficult to summon concisely the experience and emotions visiting the French castles and their grandiose gardens trigger. Whereas their beauty and architecture makes you awe, they unavoidably make one also wonder the never-ending egocentrism of their concepteurs - Francois I in the case of Chambord. We booked tickets to an impressive and entertaining horse show/act and admired the talet and acrobatic skills of the riders while learning a bit of French history. I thanked once again for the fluency of my kids French as they are able to enjoy the French culture to the fullest. A small confession, the Cheverney castle won my heart with the beautiful decor and furniture and charming Orangerie in the gardens. The family's (who lives in one of the wings) creativity and attention is visible everywhere. We even got to cross over an item in my imaginery "bucket list" and taste and buy a few bottles of the local white wine. (For the past 14 years I have happened to be every time visiting a cave either pregnant or breast-feeding!). We did experience an almost-crises over our lunch plans as we forgot for a moment we were indeed in France, where you have to follow The choreography if you wish to be fed conveniently. Still recovering from jetlag our appetite was not in synch with the French cuisine (restaurants clise by 2 pm) and so we actually had to settle to some baguette and cheese at the village park (kids were obviously super happy). By sunset we drove the last strech to the coast and arrived to our cute beach house and home-to-be for the week to come.

Summer 2023 - Tulum

It is hard to believe our month-long adventure in the Caribbean is reaching its end! It took us a moment to dive in, but we have become quite attached now to the laid-back and friendly mexican way - and tempo - of living. Here comes some words of confession. As a family travelling solo, Riviera Maya is not as "accessible" as many other places we have travelled. Few reasons for this: Stratospheric prices - I have spent a 4-fold amount on groceries compared to home. No idea how the locals manage. The same goes for activities - the main activities for families (ie. water parks) would cost a whopping 500-600 dollars for our family (compared to around 150 in Europe..). Very upsetting. Access to beach: the sad reality is screaming loud and clear - the foreign luxory hotel chains have eaten-up the beautiful beaches along the Riviera Maya and the locals are squeezed into tiny patches of beach often rocky and bearly accessible not to mention pleasurable. One evening we adventured to a street just off the main avenue to discover the life of locals - a shanty town in all its meaning with the "homes" built of whatever left-over metal pieces attached to each other, families over a few generations sitting outside, kids playing in the dusty road, skinny dogs wandering around the rubbish and dirt. Overall, there does not seem to be a city planning ongoing in this originally small fishing village, but it appears to be growing organigally on the whims of the big investors. Beurk. As for the security, well, following a shooting a few days earlier at the hotel zone in Cancun, extra security measures were put in place and the military was very present in the streets. Fortunately, we didn't face any issues during our stay and felt safe however obviously took precautions to stay together and avoid wandering off the main streets (by foot after dark). We had also chosen to stay in a safe area of the village in a beautiful gated and guarded condo. Have to mention the heat: the days had to be structured accordingly - we departed early tovisit Chitzen Itza and Tulum ruins and planned water breaks after every couple of hours either at a cenote, beach or the hotel pool. Water became an absolute priority in all forms and as a mom, yes, my daily quest was to run after the kids ensuring their hydration and protection from the sun. Summa summarum, we got the exotic experience we searched for, we enjoyed the amazing Caribbean sea and experience snorkelling the caves. Most importantly, we all got to see my little sister, which made the whole stay more meaningful beyong words. The perspective of travelling 24h back home is still heart warming (even only for a few days before embarking for the last part of our summerholidays). Hasta la proxima Mexico!

Summer 2023 - Playa de Carmen Cenotes

Perfect two days behind us with my little mexicaine sister visiting the beautiful cenotes of the area: the popular 2 eyes and the Garden of Eden. Very proud of my little tribe again for their sportiveness - despite the colds even my 5 yo bambino snorkelled through the semi-caves in 24 celsius water (feels quite chilly in contrast to the +34 celsius sea water!). The stalactitis formations are fascinating and the fish abondant. Opinions were divded whether the lushness of Eden won over the handsome 2 eyes. Both days, we enjoyed local dishes in local restaurants: fresh guacamole, nachos and vegetarian fajitas with wild rice and frijoles salsa. My senses were singing. This afternoon our hunt for the nice, family beach was finally rewarded and we enjoyed the chilled afternoon snorkelling in the milk-warm Caribbean waves close to Tulum. Nevertheless, it did not beat my longwaited and pre-meditated evening listening my sisters news, travel tales and other stories while sipping ginger tea laye into the night. Life is good!Namaste

Summer 2023 - Playa del Carmen 2

So. Gathering my thoughts here. First second impressions of Playa. My last visit to this stretch of Riviera Playa dates to mindblowing 17 years back. My sister had moved to df and was proud to present her new home country. I adventured alone from df through the jungle in an economic local bus fir 18 long hours. I stopped at Palenque in the jungle, and San Cristobal de las Casas to sense this indigenous little village in Chiapas. I stayed in Playa with my sisters friends, hanged out in local restaurants and partied in the 5th avenue. The place appeared very laid-back and exotic to me at the time. Having lived with Dr. Oatkers cereal bars for several days, I recall the heavenly tasty taco I ate in a local eatiry. My taste buds get still watery just recalling it! Our first days in Playa in 2023 have been in a little different colours. Not all can be explained by age and life that may have dimmed a bit all experiences. We took our kids to the 5th avenue. The heat and humidity absorbs ones organs with an incredible force. We had searched a budget restaurant and decided to take immediately shelter. I sense the importance locals place un pleasing and offering great service to tourists and the family running our restaurant really made the effort to be fast and efficiant with a smile. As for Playa, it appeared as many other tired shopping streets in the world with H&M and other common brands. Perhaps one exception was the drug dealers, in the middle of the street, looking young, musculous and handsom, thinking they will make a sale to parents with many young kids. In conclusion, they must have had some success. My eldest's day was complete following a visit to the iconic Hard Rock Cafe. My heart melted a bit in nostalgie, as I still recall having been fun of the phenomenon myself in the 90s. Oh, and following the record-beating expensive croissant in Santo Domingo airport (5 us dollars), I beat it now also for a ball of ice cream (5 us dollar each). I feel awed and pissed off. Gladly, we also got to discover the closest beach to our hotel before the misfortunes started. The public beach had a tiny public access between the humangous luxory hotel chains, which strech tens of km along in the Riviera Maya. There was a bit sargasse seaweat, but locals were quick to clean it. Water was nice and warm and kids saw some fishes as well. A nice moment all-together. Our second trial in the afternoon to another beach 30 min.drive away ended with a disappointment, as we learned all public beaches close at 5 pm. Had to know that! I miss dearly my little mexicaine sister to give heads-up in all these details. This morning started with gloomy news, as we discovered that not only my husband's flue has gone worse, but my son had fever, strong head-ache and vomited the glass of water I gave him. Fortunately there is a pharmacy and medical centre next door and so (maternal concern overcedes language barriers and self-consciousness!) I managed to explain my sons condition and get medications for him (yes, in Spanish). Thank you non-regulated country, I got antibiotics over the counter, another challenge was to find the correct posologie..I could not believe myself listening to you tube video to find this information, but desperado situations demands desperado measures. I truly did not want to take my son to the over-crowded university hospital not far from here. Who knows what we would catch from that visit as a souvenir! Fortunately, thanks to my ever resourceful little sister and her doctor friend we received the information. With the heat I truly hope my son will feel better soon. Long day behind and it is hardly afternoon. My other highlight of the day was the explanation I received from the hotel technician (of course in Spanish) on his cleaning process of the hotel pool. Well I had to ask and be convinced given my bambinos are using it daily. I have been already getting grips of sanitizing vocabulary much needed for my vegetables and keeping a check of kids not using the tab water. Not even for brushing their teeth. I feel like being a tourist abroad. I ask myself, if I would want to return home already? No. not that bad. I've got this, girl! Let the rest of our holidays glow brighter, namaste.

Summer 2023 - Mexico - Playa del Carmen

Black Saturdays. The concept from our 2020 Roadtrip along the Atlantic coast has a Grande Return. The term refers to our typically extra-intense day of changing places including check-out/cleaning, travelling (taxi, flights, searching car-rentals, driving among irrespectable people), finding hotel/house, checking-in, grocery shopping (super tiring), preparing dinner, washing laundry, showering and calming kids to bed, intending with my husband to celebrate our heroism with a glass of Chardonnay, but rarely made it before dropping out of shere fatigue. This time the exhausting day started at 3.30 am in Juan Dolio Dominican Republic and ended here in Mexico's Playa del Carmen. I am comfortably writing this entry from the comfort of my bed. I have been waiting this moment like full moon for several months. Not only is the above items checked for today, also the most adventurous part of our journey is behind. I have been ill-anxious about so many aspects regarding this summer's trip you probably would not expect of such a seasoned traveller as I am (or maybe because of that, eh): whether to give malaria prevention to kids or not, how about the mosquito net (not given and they are now fully patched with mosquito bites), travellers illness ( we've all had it now for a week and my well-established medical cabinet is half-empty), flying a long-haul low-cost airline (landed in one piece, still not enjoying), the safety in DR (can kids go to toilet by themselves without being kidnapped- yes they did at the hotel areas, apparently more of a problem in mx as I learned). What else have I worried? Oh, the quality of wifi connection at the hotels and how to manage the time difference (no issues) . My scare list goes on (sorry for the boring listings): No-show paid taxi (happened today), night travelling in Santo Domingo (scary as hell in a taxi for 4 persons accomodating 6 with our shitcases BELTED in the open trunk!), ultra low-cost, ultra bumpy and frightening flight to Cancun, driving from Cancun to Playa (even the nice gentlemanny venezuelan flight pilot in Santo Domingo airport warned about Cancun not being safe and to keep eyes on kids at all times). Back to this moment of bliss and relief. As said I hope to beleive the most stressful part of our trip is behind. Now my energies will be canalised to welcoming my lovely mexican little sister with us in a few days!!! And by the way today is my first day of Holidays! Welcome Playa and good vibes!! Finally, Thank you my Dear Loving Guardian Angels for having brought us here safe. Namaste.

Summer 2023 - Juan Dolio

The universal eternal balance in life..It was evident that after a week high in paradise there had to come the descent..We left Punta Cana with hearth warming greetings from our newly made friends and hopped into a 10-seater with Mr. Santander who guided us the next 2,5 hours through the penisula to our next destination called Juan Dolio close to Santo Domingo. Santander suggested avoiding the highway being dangerous and hence we took the country side road through the local villages. It was a culture shock for my children, they had never seen poverity to this extent. My son could not keep up with his questions himself: "Mom, why are the cows so skinny, why is there so much rubbish everywhere, why are there many houses unfinished?" Indeed, it was a good opportunity to discuss with a fresh 8 year old about the differences in the living conditions in the world and realize the very priviledged life we are blessed with in Europe. A memorable scenery was a road disappearing in front of us as the storm Fiona had wiped away the bridge in the middle of a village not so long ago. We could hear from Santander the sadness and seriosity in his voice when speaking of these storms which hit the Dominican Republic more hazardiously and stronger than before. I was looking around the shabby huts thinking they offer no chance of sheltering what so ever. In a village Santander stopped to get some cold red bull. Apparently he had been driving already several rounds this morning and felt tired. This is not something I wanted to hear as he was driving the most precious package of mine. I had to be creative. Warm coca cola did not do the deal, but a half pack of kids Haribos was accepted by our young driver (and he finished it in one go). What else did we learn from Santander - family is important as long as you bring in money (.), monogamy does not exist and the caribian love has no boundaries (..), the president is corrupt gathering all the wealth to his family, and last but not least, Punta Cana is a a hub for international criminals in escape (with lots of wealth) hinting the international law does not reach this distant corner of the world. As we get closer to our destination Santander starts to inquire why we had to leave our previous hotel, which made me a bit uneasy. I notice there is no security neither any gate to access the hotel, contrary to the heavy protocol in place with reservation checks and armed security guards in our previous home away. The last glimple of Santander as he waves good buy to us and whispers to me "cuidado" "be careful". So here starts the second part of our experience in the Caribian. We are completely immerged to a latin movie scene as we enter the hotel lobby late in the afternoon. It is super hot and humid. The place is packed and bustling with people with their luggage waiting to leave or arrive, the reception has a long line to wait, people are making lots of noises (positive I like to think) and merengue beats in the background. We look at each other with my husband and I ask whether he had already paid for the hotel. He nods. We wait for our turn (while I take my son three times to the toilet - the first travel diarrhea, not at all surprising given the mix of cream cakes he ate three times a day for a week..). The evening did not get much better - the hotel had not received our reservation for the second room and it took 2 hours in the managers office, 50 eur call to the internation travel customer service. 100 dollar deposit to get an extra room for the time the agency clarified the mistake (not theirs, the hotels). Thanks to my husbands Spanish and determination we ended the day in two rooms, kids showered and fed with warm dominican dinner. Oh, and the evening trip to the roadside kiosk where I was ripped off 7 dollars for a dusty cleaning product (had to be paid to be able shower my babies). We were happy and tired bunch to lay down for the night, believe me. As the new day started things have started looking better. The 4 stars hotel is actually 2 stars in Europen standards, but having recovered from the initial shock, we decided to change our frame of mind and look for the positives. The rooms are modern, with fan & airco and quality wifi. The beach with the Caribean scenery just in front is breathtaking. The personnel is authentic and friendly, they clearly love children very much. The atmosphere is unpretentious, the food in the restaurant is local and hygiene is prioritised. Renting kayaks and masks are free of charge. I find myself completelg mesmerised by observing the local families so much full of positive vibes, noise and laughter seemingly enjoying each other (probably bringing all their 2 cents in if to believe Santander). The personnel in the restaurant are efficient and are not seemingly running after dollars, they are just busy doing their job. We had a great morning snorkeling with the kids and witnessed the marine life still very much vivid on the coast: crabs, morenas, ray fish and little yellow rainbow fishes I think. And we made our first collection of little shells. I ask myself - what better could I offer to my kids and ourselves than discovering the culture in its authenticity, isn't this the very reason of traveling and to also experience a bit of adventure? Enriching life experiences. (Provided that we stay healthy and safe this week..).

Summer 2023 - Punta cana 2

Our last day in this blessed paradise is in the horizon. The whole family has very much fell in love with the place. The week has been rich in all senses: the warmth of both the wheather and the dominicans, the lushness of the nature, the variaty of food to meet all possible tastes and beyond, the good energy of the place with many young families around. Not to forget the carabian rhytms and yesterday's night beach party with dance and fire show, which will stay in our memories for a long time. The kids have been taken to sing karaoke, get their face painted, experience their first dives. They have made new friends from Venezuela, United States, Greece and with locals - language is no issue with this bunch who manage well in English and Spanish. They are curious to see different families - the common thread being all appear to be united and having great time together. For us, it is also the first time for a long time we are actually all together in the water at the same time, throwing balls or kids doing saltos. The water is so incredibly warm, it is the only place to stay for the long ours of the days. After the intense work centered winter I was already worried my heart was no longer able to sing or feel the bliss,but suddenly I feel again a re-connection, happiness and joy.

Summer 2023 - Happy birthday in Punta Cana

For the first time I thought I would not be able to make it this time - pack the life of 6 for 4 weeks in just 2 suitcases. After 2 days of re-adjustments (and prioritisation) and a few extra kg bought we managed to close the bags..My usual travel fever has been full on for weeks now resulting in 4 am sweats of forgotten vaccins, hasty notes on the "to-do" list by the bed side drawar and nightmares having read of "bermudas triangle" to my son as evening tales. We are, after all, going to cross the big Sea tempting the first long-haul flight with the kids. I have reasoned to myself that it is not actually much longer than our usual journey up North (flight to Hki or Madrid - 7h train/8h plain). Our biggest concern was how to entertain our 5 yo.in the plane.I was picturing the tantrums in the DR immigration point 1 am in the morning. And? Maybe because of the intense pre-visualisation, when the difficult moment happened I had the much needed chupachups in my purse.Yey! At the end, the trip went flawlessly - flights on time, transport waiting with our name on the sign, hotel reception welcoming. The first few days can be described with positive superlatives only. I get moved by the joy of our kids discovering the tropical nature (and wheather, the humidity..!) the breathtaking choico of Food in the restaurant...I knew my son's appetite is insataible, but have to admit my jaw dropped when my little girl finished a full donut for breakfast. After her cereals and minny mouse pancake..on the other hand, given the humid warmth, we stayed all practically 8 hours in the pool yesterday. And learned to dance Bachata into the Carabian night. Reasons for a good appetite! Today was probably THE most important and high-pressure day of the whole summer (and contributing to my panicky packing) - my sons's 8th birthday! He had been raisin his expectations for several weeks now, worried about gifts and cake and suprises and whether they would actually make it to the Caraibes. So we had conversations with probably 5 different persons at the hotel yesterday to ensure they would make the day for him. The happiness in his little face when 10 dominicans come singing to him! The day reached its perfection for him with the very first diving lesson in the pool (competing the top place with the huge police car with blinking lights we carried from home). These moments are irreplacable and make all the efforts worth it. Feel so ever grateful and relieved.

Travel tales - Spring 2023

The first week of June is behind and only today did I take the first dip to the pool or "loose my winter coat" as we say in Finland! We are a month late with starting the summer season this year due to the very cool late spring here in Belgium. Admittedly for us, this has not been really an issue given the opportunities to travel to seek the sun ourselves in the pas 6 months: Alps in carnaval, Lanzarote at Easter, Palma de Majorca and Orléans in May and Lisbon in June..The kids have had new holiday planning from school this year and we have been grateful to follow them through. We were pleased to have seen Lanzarote before Majorca, given the impressive contrasts both of these beautiful islands offered. Lanzarote with its rugged, lunar-like, volcanic paysage and Majorca with the lushness, hills and beautiful white sandy beaches. We stayed in Lanzarote in an appartment in the capital by the beach and realized it was a very good choice given the authenticity and local life compared to the busy vibes of the saturated hotel chains in the South. Food was absolutely brilliant and very affordable and we all enjoyed the fresh sea food and ice cream to the fullest! The wheather in March took us also by surprise, as we got to enjoy Nordic summer temperatures of 23 degrees celsius. The highlight of the vacation was the celebration of our baby girl's fifth birthday, which will certainly stay in our memories❤ The following month went by in a flash at work and school routines and thus we did not have much time to prepare for our May holiday in Majorca. What a positive surprise ! Beuatiful lush nature, pittoresque hill-top villages with authentic artisanal crafts. The people were - as everywhere in Spain - very loving towards our children and family. This time we had given in to the kids wish to stay in a hotel, although we did hire a ca and moved around a lot, they got to enjoy the pool and kids disco in the evening. Our favorite spots turned out to be Pollenca and its Sunday market to celebrate the Mother's day, Fornaluxt, Alcúdia beach and Portocolomn. This island is definitely worth a return trip!

Heartwarming connections

What a weekend behind! Actually what a beginning of year! Work wise it has been extremely intense period of the cycle with deliverables and deadlines on daily basis. Additional pressure from an important presentation to prepare and present on a complex issue to the whole directorate. In compensation, I do get unique opportunities to meet with the top of the ranks, as the Friday lunch meeting which turned out to be one of the most interesting discussions on current affairs. I cherish those moments and they do resource me in a surprising way. I think I have managed well. I always measure my success in terms of how patient I can remain with my children and husband The busier it get the more intentially I need to dedicate regular sessions of quiet in my daily routines, to stay calm in front of the waves of my tribe. It is really great times though. This week I attended gym competitions and last week swimming competitions. We practice the multiplication tables with another one. Weekends are 100% family time. This weekend was a peculier one, as we actually had a unique dinner invitation (I think generally there is post-covid inertia) with new friends. The uniqueness came on one part that we were the only foreigners among the 17 persons around the table, which is the first time in the 20 years here. Another friend said it is a sign you have become belgians! Another surprise was that as the evening advanced, I realised I was in the middle of this countries nobility. For a Nordic it seems rather unreachable as rare as they are, but in this country - as one of them rightly said - there is extensive wealth. Summa summarum, despite, the language, cultural and class barriers, I spend a very lovely and inspiring evening being immersed in the intriguing life of the nobles. We discussed about their family trees, hetage stories, children (all of us had 4 children) divorces (they seemed to be common, as was the high number of children, and marrying always among the noble lines).The Duke sitting opposite me had a huge castle, the one next to me was an antiquitaire as profession emptying also other people's castles. The duke on my left had just arrived from horse racing. I was amazed to what extent they were so charismatic caricatures of themselves ! The evening ended 1:30 with candies, donuts and ice -cream - served in beautiful silver baskets. I am touched beyond words for my friend's invitation to open her home and introduce to her family and close surroundings.As an adult and expat for decades I acknowledge having certain cynicism to forming frienships as they dissolve just when the relationship would have reached a deeper level due to change of country. Therefore, I was moved when my new friend said very frankly: "I want to get to know you and feel we have a connection, we will be friends for years to come". Well, I welcome open arms new genuine frienships in my life. How blessed and grateful we are.

Happy birthday!

My husband had one simple gift request to Celebrate his big number: à weekend à deux in Paris. Feasible ! Except if it was not the four kids and the dog needing a synchronised care solution for 24hours. And no, we still do not have the au pair to take the relay- but ode to dear friends and class mates we did it! Intensive preparations on Saturday morning, dropping off the kids to three different destinations and we were sitting in Thalys on our way to Paris. Champs Elyse, spy exposition, Cabaret and Monet paintings. Morning sauna and spa. Paris never disappoints. Walking by the grand boulevards, place de Vosges, by the Seine. There is something eternally romantic and energising in the City. Happy and tired, we pick-up the kids on Sunday afternoon. It has been an adventure for them too, my youngest 1st sleepover, restaurant dinner, movie night and even a guest at the scouts outing. One-on-one weekend - not a once a month fair perhaps to do, but surely little more often than every 10 years! And of course happy to see my youthful birthday husband so pleased ❤️

Christmas and NY Joys

It is the Evening of a long day of unpacking, washing and settling back home. The house was welcoming us last night at the height of 10 degrees, but it was there, safe and comforting. The chilly night did nothing to the joy of our kids discovering the gifts left under the Tree in the morning! The screems and laughs and energy is hard to discribe and yet those moments I would truly like to bottle for future. My youngest got her Elsa make-up kit, my son his long dreamed volume speaker and my girls their selected brands of backbag and clothes. They have clearly been very nice all year ! Everybodies dreams came true this year, amazing! Kids are usually so creative and happy to find their toys after travels, and today was no different. We heard concerts, dressed barbies and baked the 3 kings pie. The highlight of the day was undeniably getting our Taica back home from the dog carer. He had been OK despite my worries about how he will survive the New Year's fireworks and being in a new place. Apparently animals adjust quickly. The hosts were looking forward to welcoming him in the future, which is so important to hear. Our winter break was evrything one can hope: Seeing the Grand - parents, lots of snow, winter sports, Nordic scenery, food and culture. And Sauna of course. My kids are Finns by every means and during the 10 days they mastered cross-country skiing, ice-skating, sleighs, saunas and -the most wicked part of it - rolling in the snow naked afterwards! And they did this many times. True Sisu they have, even and especially my 4-year old! I have said this before, but the one place I truly feel GOOD (safe, relaxed, happy) is in my home town, on the beach trail next to my parents house. Regardless of whether I have my running shoes on or on the skis, I have a smile on my face as I roll off from the front porch and start my 6-9km trail around the ski mountain and lake. I did it every day of my holiday and if anybody wonders it makes me a better person to this wordl It was heart warming to spend time with my parents. Evening discussions around a glass of wine and treats about life and politics, breakfast together in the small kitchen table which is the favorite spot for everybody! It is a big effort on all sides to join together and I am very grateful my parents have still the energy to welcome us from far away. While living abroad coming "home" is such a highlight of the year for all of us. For our children it is during these stays, that they also get to establish their Nordic identity and immerse in their culture. I think it is hilarious they consider my little home town as the best place in the world to live in. They went as far as to search for a house and work for us to make the big move! Honestly, if teleworking became the norm, I don't think we reflected twice: the place has everything we wish for: nature, peace and quiet, space, clean air, sports and culture, high quality schools. The only bad is it is so far away..Anyways, these dreams definitely pave a nice beginning for the New year 2023! We are very fortunate to have our hidden gem to go and recover.